Is anyone not into nudity and cruel stuff?

[coolguy69]

Hi I realized as a man, one way I seem to differ from a lot of the M/f community is that I just enjoy when a woman shrinks and keeps her clothes on and just cute stuff happens. I love romantic interactions, I love the trust that’s built, the voice becoming higher pitched, and the emotions and struggles that a woman goes through when she’s shrunk. But I never imagine being cruel or anything like that, I’m a gentle giant. Stuff like Violet Goes to the Beach, or stuff like the art below, I just really enjoy that kind of connection and a woman wanting to look pretty while the man is comforting, keeps her safe, and takes care of her. I know some people are like, half into the cuddles and half into the sexual stuff, but for me it’s like full-on cuteness and fluff and sexually I’m satisfied by that and grossed out by nudity. My only real "kink" is specific shoes. Anyone else relate?

[Little Sally]

Hi I realized as a man, one way I seem to differ from a lot of the M/f community is that I just enjoy when a woman shrinks and keeps her clothes on and just cute stuff happens. I love romantic interactions, I love the trust that’s built, the voice becoming higher pitched, and the emotions and struggles that a woman goes through when she’s shrunk. But I never imagine being cruel or anything like that, I’m a gentle giant. Stuff like Violet Goes to the Beach, or stuff like the art below, I just really enjoy that kind of connection and a woman wanting to look pretty while the man is comforting, keeps her safe, and takes care of her. I know some people are like, half into the cuddles and half into the sexual stuff, but for me it’s like full-on cuteness and fluff and sexually I’m satisfied by that and grossed out by nudity. My only real "kink" is specific shoes. Anyone else relate?

It's a refreshing change to read your preferences, and you are certainly not alone in what you like.

I've always been a believer in the clothes shrinking with the subject, because it at least allows the woman some dignity after the event happens. I find the idea of being naked from the get go rather tedious to be honest, and it is often used as a shortcut to some sexual exploitation by your average male fantasist (with some exceptions). And I'm more interested in the woman being regarded as a person first and foremost, than some kind of "pet" to be taken advantage of.

I'm not a prude or against nudity per se, but it needs to be arrived at with the woman's consent and in the right kind of scenario. And definitely not from under a pile of clothing she's shrunken out of.

There's nothing wrong with cuteness and fluff either (and shoes! ), so keep the faith and keep enjoying the things you like!

[Bloodthirstybutcher]

Personally, I enjoy the full range that the fantasy offers. Everything from the cute “fluff” to the more sexualized scenarios. As far as cute, heartwarming stories and art go, I can’t recommend Littlest-Lily’s stuff enough.

https://www.deviantart.com/littlest-lily

[DocRick]

Personally, I enjoy the full range that the fantasy offers. Everything from the cute “fluff” to the more sexualized scenarios. As far as cute, heartwarming stories and art go, I can’t recommend Littlest-Lily’s stuff enough.

https://www.deviantart.com/littlest-lily

^^^ What he said. While my art runs the gambit of scenarios, but my personal fantasies are Mf stories where they stumble or are forced into each other's lives and how they deal with it, going from fear/curiosity to friendship to romance.

Littlest Lilys writings are the best and there are a few other good ones out there that follow the same storylines.

[goodshrnker]

I'm not into the cruel stuff because I just don't like it and not into the sexual stuff because I feel I've seen or read everything sexually possible with a SW over the years and it's just repetitive now.

[norlakte3rd]

Totally agree, nudity in SW stuff just puts me right off. I like them fully clothed but barefooted (don't know why, I only find it sexy if the shrinkee has bare feet) so you're not alone!

[DocRick]

Totally agree, nudity in SW stuff just puts me right off. I like them fully clothed but barefooted (don't know why, I only find it sexy if the shrinkee has bare feet) so you're not alone!

Bare feet in a tiny lady portrays a degree of vulnerability, more so when otherwise fully clothed, making her dependent on you carrying her in the palm of your hand, thus strengthening the bond of your relationship. Besides, tiny stiletto heels hurt !!!

[Little Sally]

I'm not into the cruel stuff because I just don't like it and not into the sexual stuff because I feel I've seen or read everything sexually possible with a SW over the years and it's just repetitive now.

Totally agree, nudity in SW stuff just puts me right off. I like them fully clothed but barefooted (don't know why, I only find it sexy if the shrinkee has bare feet) so you're not alone!

So pleased to read those comments. I've often felt like a voice in the wilderness with my own similar views, so it's good to know there are other like minded folk about.

[Bobascher]

There are certainly times that I like cruel or erotic sizeplay, I honestly find them to become boring after a while. There are only so many ways someone can be stomped or wrapped around a phallus. There’s so much more that can be done fully clothed!

I also like “size ambiguous” situations - art pieces where you can’t tell if a person is shrunk or one is a giant. IMHO it helps to show that the SW and GTS parts of the size community aren’t as far apart as one might think.

I hope you check out my DA, because I think you’ll like a lot of my pieces: www.deviantart.com/bobascher

[Tieavenger]

You are not alone. I don't like the cruel stuff either. The nudity I'm 50/50. It really just depends on the type of story and how the shrinking works. While I like the sex stuff if done right, I do fine the whole heavy petting through clothes to be just as erotic at times. As it's close to an under utilized foreplay.

Also, like how it starts as an unaware shrinking woman scenario. Then they are found by someone. Thought that may work better for shrinking man and normal sized woman story.

[OrangeQueen]

I prefer gentle and clothed stuff too. I don’t really like to think about the potential for injury that comes with being tiny.

Besides, though I do like to have clothes shrink with me, I also love figuring out makeshift outfits suitable for tiny sizes. Doll clothes, handkerchief dresses, and the like.

[DocRick]

You are not alone. I don't like the cruel stuff either. The nudity I'm 50/50. It really just depends on the type of story and how the shrinking works. While I like the sex stuff if done right, I do fine the whole heavy petting through clothes to be just as erotic at times. As it's close to an under utilized foreplay.

Also, like how it starts as an unaware shrinking woman scenario. Then they are found by someone. Thought that may work better for shrinking man and normal sized woman story.

When her clothes shrink with her, they would probably take on the consistency of tissue paper and heavy petting through the clothes is very sexy, the clothes may not survive it.

[DocRick]

I prefer gentle and clothed stuff too. I don’t really like to think about the potential for injury that comes with being tiny.

Besides, though I do like to have clothes shrink with me, I also love figuring out makeshift outfits suitable for tiny sizes. Doll clothes, handkerchief dresses, and the like.

My mother taught me how to sew as a kid, so I would be happy to make you some nice things to wear.

[OrangeQueen]

I prefer gentle and clothed stuff too. I don’t really like to think about the potential for injury that comes with being tiny.

Besides, though I do like to have clothes shrink with me, I also love figuring out makeshift outfits suitable for tiny sizes. Doll clothes, handkerchief dresses, and the like.

My mother taught me how to sew as a kid, so I would be happy to make you some nice things to wear.

That honestly sounds like the absolute best.

[Tieavenger]

You are not alone. I don't like the cruel stuff either. The nudity I'm 50/50. It really just depends on the type of story and how the shrinking works. While I like the sex stuff if done right, I do fine the whole heavy petting through clothes to be just as erotic at times. As it's close to an under utilized foreplay.

Also, like how it starts as an unaware shrinking woman scenario. Then they are found by someone. Thought that may work better for shrinking man and normal sized woman story.

When her clothes shrink with her, they would probably take on the consistency of tissue paper and heavy petting through the clothes is very sexy, the clothes may not survive it.

Not necessarily but I see your point. Imagine if the shrinking process made the person and their clothing nearly indestructible. Would make for a more interesting story.

[lurkerk]

You must be one of those guys who marries a woman who treats you like she's your mother

[DocRick]

Not necessarily but I see your point. Imagine if the shrinking process made the person and their clothing nearly indestructible. Would make for a more interesting story.

You're not that far off. With the decrease in mass, gravity would have a much lesser effect on a tiny lady, and she would probably be able to withstand falls or jumps from a comparative height that would kill a normal sized person. Strength and durability would be lessened, however if you are looking at miniaturization on a scientific level...........what am I saying? Shrinking itself is impossible so everything else in the fantasy is possible !!!

[DocRick]

I prefer gentle and clothed stuff too. I don’t really like to think about the potential for injury that comes with being tiny.

Besides, though I do like to have clothes shrink with me, I also love figuring out makeshift outfits suitable for tiny sizes. Doll clothes, handkerchief dresses, and the like.

My mother taught me how to sew as a kid, so I would be happy to make you some nice things to wear.

That honestly sounds like the absolute best.

[Prof Sai]

I certainly don't like the "cruel stuff". But I do like adventure, so a certain potential for bad things is hard to avoid. Nudity is actually fairly easy, and is a logical consequence of shrinking. But clothed is fine and actually opens up more "living life like this" stories.

[coolguy69]

Totally agree, nudity in SW stuff just puts me right off. I like them fully clothed but barefooted (don't know why, I only find it sexy if the shrinkee has bare feet) so you're not alone!

Yeah I relate a lot to this. I love certain pairs of shoes myself, and enjoy when they are the thing that causes her to shrink. The shrinking and tininess of the woman is the most important part, when she feels small, I'm happy

[leadpaint]

this thread to me really illustrates how our preferences inform our perception of what's popular - i pretty much only enjoy cruel M/f stuff and i certainly feel like the odd one out in most M/f communities, like, most M/f smut appears to be firmly on the gentle side to me...

interestingly, though, I don't really care for nudity either.

no judgement meant btw, i definitely wish the gentle stuff was enjoyable to me too, but brains be weird >:[

[DocRick]

this thread to me really illustrates how our preferences inform our perception of what's popular - i pretty much only enjoy cruel M/f stuff and i certainly feel like the odd one out in most M/f communities, like, most M/f smut appears to be firmly on the gentle side to me...

interestingly, though, I don't really care for nudity either.

no judgement meant btw, i definitely wish the gentle stuff was enjoyable to me too, but brains be weird >:[

Hey, we all have our particular likes and dislikes. There's enough of everything and anything on this forum to satisfy any SW palate.

[Little Sally]

this thread to me really illustrates how our preferences inform our perception of what's popular - i pretty much only enjoy cruel M/f stuff and i certainly feel like the odd one out in most M/f communities, like, most M/f smut appears to be firmly on the gentle side to me...

I find it strange you'd feel the odd one out in this particular place (regarding M/f activity), as much of the stuff posted should be right up your alley. Where many scenarios are basically focussed on exploiting a small woman for sexual gratification, or at best, treating her like a little pet to look after in a doll house or a hamster cage (and I guess that passes as the gentle side of things).

interestingly, though, I don't really care for nudity either.

Now that is a surprise! Which I find interesting, and kind of encouraging.

no judgement meant btw, i definitely wish the gentle stuff was enjoyable to me too, but brains be weird >:[

No judgement intended by me either, as I've long since stopped caring about these matters to be honest. We are all what we are, and that's all there is to it.

[DocRick]

We are all what we are, and that's all there is to it.

You put your right on it.

[Little Sally]

We are all what we are, and that's all there is to it.

You put your right on it.

Cheers Doc! That's marvelous!